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Lessons for living – Connections

14 Aug

The one contributor to unhappiness in later life is the loss of connections with other people.

As we get older social connections can be more difficult to maintain.  Friends move in and out of our lives or pass away. We retire and miss the camaraderie we experienced with our workmates or the interactions with our customers. We look at our partners and wonder what connection we had all those years ago.

We lose touch with what matters… Other people.

We know that having social connections is a strong predictor of our health.

What is the key: we need to get involved in social networks  and meaningful roles. All life needs a purpose. Volunteering is a good way to participate in a positive way. We feel better when we contribute to helping others and giving something back.

Being isolated when you reach old age is not good for us. Remember this when you are moving through your life. Connecting with others is the one thing that us as humans yearn for. I see the importance of this constantly in my programmes. Be mindful as you slowly discard relationships that were once important to you in life.

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